When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to walk in others’ shoes. You do this so you can understand why they behaved the way they have towards you. You do this so you can find compassion and understanding so you can forgive them and be free. We all need to practice what we were taught in Sunday school or the temple, or the mosque. We need to learn to walk in other…..
Stop being serious. When working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you stop taking life so seriously. When you have looked back at your wounds and healed them. When you have forgiven those, who have harmed you. When you looked back at your negative beliefs and carried them for so long and changed them. There is a new sense of freedom that comes over you. Stop being serious because you know you can…..
Compassion Breeds Compassion. When working on returning to self-love, as I have said before, you are going to have to own your demons. The gift of owning your inner demons is compassion. You see, when you own your inner bully or your inner jealous one, you look back and understand that you behaved that way because of your lack of self-love – Your lack of feeling valuable or that you matter or are worthy of love. Compassion is waiting to…..
Foes are our best friends. When you are working on returning to self-love, something a little unusual will happen to you. You are suddenly going to realize that your foes – those supposed enemies – on a soul level are really your best friends. Now, these people are the ones who separate you from your feelings of self-love. Foes kept you from feeling valuable – that you mattered and that you were good enough. Foes are your best friend. They…..
You are so much more. When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to let go of your limits. Now when you were children, you were told who you were. What you are good at. What you weren’t so good at. You carried those beliefs forward into the present day. You even put new beliefs on top of these older beliefs, telling you what you can experience – what you can achieve. When you are…..
When you are returning to self-love, you are going to have to look at your beliefs – both positive and negative belief systems. You are going to have to start dissecting them- looking at them. Wondering how long you have carried them? Are they helping you or hurting you? You are going to have to become curious about why you believe what you believe. And why do you still hang on to it even when it may be harmful to…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to discover something quite tremendous. You have the power to change yourself. Now, most of us have been taught that people don’t change. But in truth, if you are willing to do the inner work, you can change yourself. I recently was talking to someone who had not been a good father. When I said do it now, they said it is too late. If you still have breath…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you realize that every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. All decisions are yours. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in…..
When working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to be kind to yourself. You are going to be healing wounds and changing negative beliefs. And along the way, you are going to make mistakes. When changing a negative belief, it is going to take time to lock in this new belief and have your behavior follow that new belief. So, you are going to have to practice kindness with yourself. You are going to have…..
When you are working on finding yourself, you are going to have to become your own best friend. Self-love is about love and learning how to love yourself. Now that doesn’t mean going to the spa or eating well, going to the gym, or setting boundaries. That’s mnt saying that all of these things are not good. They are all very good things to do, but they are not really about loving yourself. Self-love is about learning how to love…..
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